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MORE: A Guy’s Take on Neediness Now it is worth noting that a lot of women want to know how to make a guy chase them because they want him to pursue her and commit.If you want to know exactly what makes a man commit and how to make him commit to you (and only you), then take a look at this article here: MORE: 4 Ways To Make Him Commit and Want Only You I met this guy years ago, let’s call him Craig.Since Craig and I lived somewhat of a distance away (maybe about 40 minutes) I went out of my way to see him when it was convenient for him.There were forces working against us and I didn’t want to make things worse by being unaccommodating.When I eventually met up with Craig at the bar, the first thing he said after our friendly hellos and my apology for changing things around last minute was: “I like that you didn’t cancel on your friends.It shows a lot about you and made me even more excited to see you.” I was off to a great start, but that didn’t last.When you have a fulfilling life of your own that exists completely separate from him, you will automatically be seen as having great value.
I hope this sheds some light on the whole game conundrum.
By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.
And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.
The frequency of calls and texts declined…he was always “too busy” to hang out…he stopped initiating contact (but would always respond when I reached out to him, acting nice and normal like always)…
Eventually, I stopped reaching out because it was starting to make me feel like an idiot…and he was never to be heard from again.
When you are so desperate for his approval and so accommodating to his schedule, then he doesn’t feel a need to step up or lock you down because…why should he?